August 2008, we completed 10 years of our friendship... :-) Like typical girls i remember some special dates n days of my life.. he he... Today i went with her for swimming, she was happy or I can say better.. This made me feel good..
I share a lot of such relationships with differnt people which have just clicked and exist from last many years... Not becuase i wanted them to exist as both the parties wanted it to exist... People say that it is because I stayed in the same city.. So I say, if i have been at the same city, however my frds left for different cities or countries, i still share the similar relationship... Moreover it is not important to talk everyday, it is about staying in the difficult times or not let the distance affect the intensity of care or love for each other..
There have been relationships which just do not work inspite of best efforts... Even we are together we don't meet or bother to care, it just become a formality to ask about each other...
I find it difficult to let go ny relationship... I think they are the source of real happiness and pain :)
Though at times it had been difficult for me to loose the other person, but we are helpless as this could be the best solution of the particular situation..
However all that I shared with these relations....
I cherish it..
I share, express, smile, cry, learn, seek advice, fight actually live with them...
1 comment:
I believe the best relationships are the ones which remain unaffected by distances and frequency of contact. I am lucky to have those relations in my life where we talk almost daily or max every other day. But I cherish those as well where even while talking after 3-4 months, makes me feel that we have never been out of touch! It is with those kind of people where you do not need to make efforts to sustain that relation...It is just there forever in your life without being dependent on contact, visibility & explanations.
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