I always believe in moving on in life, i also cry for people I love, i like whom i want them to be a part of my life.... However if the other person shows disinterest I move on... why to play with my own self-respect. I know i have made enough efforts to make the relationship work, if the other person cannot see, thats his/her badluck... I hate to see people crying for the stupid frds they want them in their life... I know it hurts, it matters... But what after that, now when you have been hurt.. How long you can slog for the same... Dont you think the better idea is to come out of it and explore something else or invest our time in something new and better.
Is losing in love the biggest grief on earth ?
I dont think so... I hate it if i see my closest frds spoiling their life for something like this.. We have people in India who even dont get a single meal a day, so much of poverty, poor living standard..
If we ever try to look into their eyes, we will get to know what it means to be hurt..
Ask the old people in the society who live on the mercy of their children and get to hear so much for two meals a day... Ask a poor man who struggle the whole day to earn to feed his children.. Ask the parent who have lost their young son or daugther in accidents..
Most of all i dont believe, that they even know the true meaning of love... Just by watching some movies together, wearing those branded clothes and going to a disc together would not make the so called "beautiful moments"...
Beautiful moments are - "being there with each other in the worst times" .. Loving the other person even if you wear most pathetic clothes, and go to a sabzi mandi... Not those air-conditioned malls...
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Are we sagi's like that. We keep building the bridge of f'ship no matter what :)
For me friends are my biggest assets. I feel sorry for not losing them out to so called stupid reasons but they failing to understand what the word FRIENDS mean. Forming friendhip is very easy, sustaining it - is very difficult.
Someone rightly said 'Love is Blind'. Due to lack of commonsense, people misunderstood this and started assuming Love is everything. If you really want to love, love yourself first.
So called 'Hip hop lovers' say that the pain of failure of such relationship is unbearable and can't be understood by people outside it. The thut sucks!!!
The love that they talk about is not older then the love that exist between any parent and his/her child. If you really want to love someone outside yourself, then first it has to be parents. Parents do not expect any thing from children except RESPECT and LOVE. Both of them can't be buyed and than gifted, it has to be shown thru positive Actions. Be compassionate.
Our pain of losing a gf/bf is nothing when compared to their pain on losing us out for some stupid reasons.
You are cent percent correct when u say,"If we ever try to look into their EYES, we will get to know what it means to be hurt..
". This pain can be understood if and only if we relate ourself to parents as well as to the people who are fighting hard to get even a single meal a day.
Cheers'
Yeap very true Ashish, if we cannot love our parents, who have been there with us from last 24 years, how can we say that the we cannot live without the person who is there in our life from last 4-5 years only...
My frd said- I am not bothered about anyone now, not even my parents.. I asked her - what if your mom said the same thing when there was huge financial crises at your home.. You would have not been here.
They think, by earning good,they dont owe anything else to the house.. They fail to understand that their two words filled with love would be more helpful for their parents then those salaries..
And I always believed and by hurting our own parents or grandparents we can never get happiness in our life. We say we are struggling, it has been their duty to feed or so..
What if they didnt perform their so called duties or responsibilities well.. Where we would have been? They might be as a support function in the later stages.. but we need to understand that without this support we would have never reached till here..
I think people who lose their love, definitely lose much more,(than they have already lost), by ignoring other relations around them. They need to see beyond the world, that they create around them...
Parents can never find an excuse to ignore their child, but number of excuses that today's generation can come up surprises me! Have heard that a person becomes a better child when he becomes a parent! :-) But it is saddening to see that people have to wait till they reach that stage to realize where they have been wrong.
Truly, it is very saddening to wait so long to respect and love our parents... Their love is undoubtly unconditional.. I wish we could realise the same sooner than later..
Life is to move on, its a journey and nothing is fixed in this wicked world.. So we should not rather cherish good times from past and look forward to future.. Instead of stopping ourselves by the smallest occurance..
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