Is losing in love the biggest grief on earth ?

I always believe in moving on in life, i also cry for people I love, i like whom i want them to be a part of my life.... However if the other person shows disinterest I move on... why to play with my own self-respect. I know i have made enough efforts to make the relationship work, if the other person cannot see, thats his/her badluck... I hate to see people crying for the stupid frds they want them in their life... I know it hurts, it matters... But what after that, now when you have been hurt.. How long you can slog for the same... Dont you think the better idea is to come out of it and explore something else or invest our time in something new and better.

Is losing in love the biggest grief on earth ?

I dont think so... I hate it if i see my closest frds spoiling their life for something like this.. We have people in India who even dont get a single meal a day, so much of poverty, poor living standard..

If we ever try to look into their eyes, we will get to know what it means to be hurt..

Ask the old people in the society who live on the mercy of their children and get to hear so much for two meals a day... Ask a poor man who struggle the whole day to earn to feed his children.. Ask the parent who have lost their young son or daugther in accidents..

Most of all i dont believe, that they even know the true meaning of love... Just by watching some movies together, wearing those branded clothes and going to a disc together would not make the so called "beautiful moments"...

Beautiful moments are - "being there with each other in the worst times" .. Loving the other person even if you wear most pathetic clothes, and go to a sabzi mandi... Not those air-conditioned malls...

Happy Independence day!!

Wish I could be at her place :-)

Relationships click !

August 2008, we completed 10 years of our friendship... :-) Like typical girls i remember some special dates n days of my life.. he he... Today i went with her for swimming, she was happy or I can say better.. This made me feel good..
I share a lot of such relationships with differnt people which have just clicked and exist from last many years... Not becuase i wanted them to exist as both the parties wanted it to exist... People say that it is because I stayed in the same city.. So I say, if i have been at the same city, however my frds left for different cities or countries, i still share the similar relationship... Moreover it is not important to talk everyday, it is about staying in the difficult times or not let the distance affect the intensity of care or love for each other..
There have been relationships which just do not work inspite of best efforts... Even we are together we don't meet or bother to care, it just become a formality to ask about each other...
I find it difficult to let go ny relationship... I think they are the source of real happiness and pain :)
Though at times it had been difficult for me to loose the other person, but we are helpless as this could be the best solution of the particular situation..
However all that I shared with these relations....
I cherish it..
I share, express, smile, cry, learn, seek advice, fight actually live with them...

The Power of Courage !

Sharing some thoughts over courage which I read in one of the book - Discussions on Youth,

"As long as we're alive, we'll face all kinds of problems, but no matter what happens, we simply have to live with courage and press on, aiming always towards the future. No one can escape the realities of dialy life. We have to deal with life and its problems. Young people have their own problems, just as adults have their. Life and the world live in are like a storm-tossed sea; we have to make our way through it, buffeted by different kinds of experiences. There is no other way. This is part of our inescapable destiny as human beings.
Everyone has their own hopes and dreams, their own way of life, their own ideals, their own joys, their own sufferings, their own pain and their own grief."

No matter what happens, however we have to get on with life. We have to keep moving. working towards realising our ideals and dreams...

With this would like to share some live examples -

Two years back, when i use to travel in the local train, I met a old lady - she was around 75 years old or more than that... She use to travel from Balabgarh to ChandniChowk each day.. She knew various kind of hand embroidery.. and use to work with a export house.. She has no complaints from life, was happily enjoying her work...

A old man I know, who is physically challenged(Blind) - lost his eyes in an accident, when he was around 40yr old. He has three sons - two of them are well off and third one is mentally unstable.. The elder two son's are busy in their life and have left this old man from last 50 years... However the younger one who is mentally unstable stays with him and create one or the other problem.. Though this old man has never cried, has been working from last 40 years, earned a good amount, on which now his youngest son is living his life...

Apollo Circus!

Went to watch the circus, i don't prefer to watch circus as I cannot enjoy animals performing... I cannot bear the discomfort in their eyes...Though I chose to watch circus, thinking I would get to see people from a different world, yes for me they are... Watching them I always wonder their motivation to perform... It was not a very mordernised or professional circus.. It was a circus group which didnt have good costumes to wear..
i understand that animal performance is one of their way to earn livlihood.. However, when i saw the elephant performing.. the only thing i could see was his eyes... Tears could not stop from my eyes... I found him helpless, in the middle of crowd, for my surprise people around were enjoying.. And I was the odd one to cry... Feel helpless, dont know if i could do something for them... I feel nature should not be disturb, its good to train animals, You might give them good food, care, but how about their own kingdom, their own home, their own environment... Can we give all this to them...d

Issue of Mind...

Most situations are an issue of mind over matter....... If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.....

Very good message shared by a frd, perfect timing ;-) Something was bothering me, couldn't find the solution.. This one line released my mind out of the stupid thoughts....